My first understanding of sensuality as a life force, as a part of our purpose, was during my journey of recovery from eating disorders. After years in a tormented relationship with food and in total dissociation with the pleasure, presence and sensuality of food. As part of my recovery path I decided to treat my relationship with food, like I would with a romantic relationship.

I decided to court my food…. 

What do  words like Witch, Magic and Coven stir in you?

Perhaps a sense of intrigue, a calling?

Perhaps they feel silly,  just things to “play around with” the stuff of stories and fairytales, just nonsense for kids not for grown women who have to make a living, look after their kids, focus on their career, be a grown up!

Maybe it opens a deep knowing, a sense of belonging, a pull from your soul?….

Join the revolution!

Today, we delve into a liberating conversation about the transformative journey of embracing one's dominant energy while simultaneously confronting the internal and societal pressures that often hold us back. This journey, I like to call ‘The Good Girl Resistance,' highlights the importance of self-awareness and grounding in self-love to truly claim and embody our personal power….

Exploring Dominant Expression…

What does it mean to embrace your dominant persona? How does this enrich your life, far beyond the dungeon walls or societal expectations? In the following paragraphs I delve into some of the elements explored in my Dominatrix Training….

An ode to my love, the corset…

The very first time I cinched, squeezed and hiked my waist into the deliciously cruel, steel boned embrace of a corset is forever etched into my mind like the sweet memory of a lovers first kiss…

I can still feel the surges of heat and excitement flushing through my body as it constrictive yet delicate hands enveloped my waist…

An abnormally sunny day in Berlin…

As I entered through the museum doors I was pondering the realm of vulnerability, of feeling deeply “exposed” in ones power and yet also paradoxically disconnected from it. It was at this moment that I was met by the most striking image, above the grand staircase of the Museum of Photography, displayed in breathtakingly large format, Helmut Newtons ‘Big Nudes’ collection….

Exploring vulnerability in Dominance….

Showing vulnerability will always be viewed as a strength in my mind, and this applies to all areas of life, including the Domme space. Submissives offer up such a raw and beautiful gift of vulnerability when committing to service and sub space, to offer the same wholeness in return is elemental to creating a balance and exchange.

There are many different elements and drivers that can lead one to explore the beautiful world of bdsm and to visit a Dominatrix. 

For some of us it is innate desire or perhaps even a need, that has been with us for as long as we can remember, like a hypotonic whisper that transmutes into the most powerful poetry once we are finally able to find a space to truly hear the words.